I
believe that in every relationship there will be misunderstandings and
problems. Whether it comes from us or our partner. The good news is that it
makes it easier to understand why you might be having problems in your
relationship. But the bad news is that to resolve the issue takes a deep
personal commitment to heal. The causes of failure in relationship are lack of
trust and interaction, family background and influence of stress.
One
of the causes of failure in relationship is lack of trust and interaction.
Don’t we feel good when our families and friends trust us? Don’t we feel happy
when they remember us or call us especially during special date? Don’t we feel
comfortable when we are with people we like and love to be with? But if we do
not trust our spouse, this may easily lead us to a misunderstanding because we
never know much about our him or her. Besides that, without good interaction or
communication, we may not make our partner as our inspiration. But if we have
full of trust and interaction in our life, it can motivate us to work hard and
become responsible.
In
other point of view, family background may also cause failure in a
relationship. This is about a good or bad family background may influence the
way we deal with others and how we solve our problems. Example of a bad family background
include parents divorce. This may makes the children to become naughty and not
listen to their parents advice. They speak with their partner using harsh
words, their dress up, the way they walk, thinks or sees things is different
from the religious family. The way how we communicate with our partner and it
can contribute to our problems if we don’t learn to accept each other’s
strengths and weaknesses.
The
last point for a relationship went failed is because of influence of stress.
There are a lot of different kinds of stress that affect our relationship
communication. Usually, we are stress because of arguments, criticism,
financial standing and problem at work or at home. This can manipulate our
emotional and will cause argument between partner if we do not know how to
control it. The way to avoid from stress is we need to discuss our problems
with our partner such as slow talk to each other.
In
conclusion the causes of failure in relationship include of influence of
stress, family background and lack of trust and interaction. When you decide to
learn to love yourself rather than continue to abandon yourself, you will
discover how to create a loving relationship with your partner. The important three
things in a relationship are honesty, sincere and loyal.
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